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1. How did you start talking?

We met in real life and then we talked online We met on an app/social network, but we have real connections I was approached by a stranger online / new account with no connection to me

2. After how long did the declarations of love, „you are my soul mate”, „I love you”, etc.?

After a long period of getting to know each other well After weeks of intense discussions Very quickly (a few days / first week)

3. Did he avoid appearing on the video call or meeting face to face, always making excuses?

No, we saw each other or talked normal video Sometimes avoided, but not constantly Yes, constantly refusing video/meeting, always „something” comes up”

4. Has he/she asked or suggested you to send money, financial help, pay something „temporarily” or invest?

No, never Has vaguely hinted at having problems or difficulties Yes, he clearly asked for money, aid, investment or payments

5. Does he ask you for intimate or very personal photos, insist on the sexual subject, even though you haven't actually met?

No There was a discussion, but he didn't insist Yes, insist/pressure for intimate photos or videos

6. His/her life story seems very dramatic (accidents, serious illnesses, blocked inheritances, military missions, etc.) and always justifies why he/she can't see him/herself / why he/she needs money?

No, his/her/their life seems normal and coherent There are dramatic but not central elements Yeah, the whole story's based on drama and roadblocks

7. Do you notice contradictions in his/her/their stories (job, country, family, program) or evasive answers when you ask concrete questions?

No, it is coherent There were a few small inconsistencies Yes, the story doesn't add up - many contradictions

8. Is he/she trying to isolate you from friends/family, saying that „they don't understand you”, „they don't want your well being”, only he/she understands you?

No, on the contrary, it encourages my relationships There were a few remarks, but not frequent Yes, definitely - try to be dependent on him/her only

9. When you try to question the situation, do you react with guilt, victimization, emotional blackmail („if you loved me, you wouldn't ask / don't test me”)?

No, we can talk logically and calmly Sometimes he gets upset, but he calms down Yes, frequently makes me feel guilty for any question

10. If you rely strictly on your gut instinct, how likely do you feel the situation is a manipulation/scam?

Low - I think it's a real relationship, just complicated Medium - something doesn't add up and I'm uneasy Elevated - I feel something is deeply wrong

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